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Standard vs. Gold vs. VIP does it make a difference?  

wetbetweenmylegz 52F
501 posts
11/6/2016 4:54 pm

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8/25/2020 6:09 pm

Standard vs. Gold vs. VIP does it make a difference?

Does the type of membership someone has matter to you? Does them paying for their membership make you think they are more genuine? I am just curious...

Also... Confirmed vs. Verified.... does one instill more confidence than the other in your mind?

I am just curious of people's opinions.


KarlandTerra123 45M/46F

4/12/2022 1:59 pm

What's the difference between a gold membership and a VIP membership? Is there different features per membership? As I can't find on site and when I call I get disconnected every time


Newmartingale 44M
15 posts
7/12/2019 7:34 am

This is a very interesting question. I have tried both. The advantage of having a gold membership is the ability to send messages as much as you want. However, I guess as guy here the competition is so hard that between a woman/couple seeing your messages and then actually responding it can be low chance of response rate. However, like anything else in life if you try enough you increase your success chances. Now, I found that you could get responses even if you are not a gold member. It would be interesting to see if you get more for being confirmed . Other than that, I would just say that you get more with civility and being yourself then from being rude with a picture showing you abs or really large member .


Bigoof4567 26M

1/13/2019 8:21 am

As a new Standard member I find it all interesting because without gold membership I cannot look at practically anyone's profile. Is that a user preference or is it a default thing for standard members?


goodandtasty69 54M

8/25/2017 8:48 am

Aye Caramba ! Seniority es muy buena chica!


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/19/2017 8:27 pm

Ummmmm.... what was the question? I was totally distracted by your... er... necklace.

Thoughts from the Garden...


wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/20/2017 4:31 pm:
You are charming and handsome... {=}

DRB820 46M  
53 posts
11/7/2016 5:31 pm

Great comments so far. I think you might be able to give a good opinion as a hot woman coming from a Gold member status who also allows standards to contact you. Is it too overwhelming having standard members contact you as compared to gold without allowing standards to contact ?? I have been a member on this site since 2005. Been standard, silver, gold, vip w/ extras for allowing standrds to contact, etc. The site does drive me crazy at times, to the point I wanted to confirm if I was even getting what I paid for ! I have met a lot of great members as a gold & as a standard member. The site has added some great things to get standards more involved since I joined 10yrs ago. Better points earning system, 5 free chats /day, free profile viewing/messaging for top 5 fans etc. but as a standard member I still get more opportunities to meet members if they are silver/gold and allow standards to message them. Hope this helps. GREAT SEXY PHOTO BTW


wetbetweenmylegz replies on 11/7/2016 6:59 pm:
Very cool feedback... it seems gender of a profile affects what you can or can't do as a standard member... so it has been interesting to get other's perspectives.

I don't find the correspondence too overwhelming but I also don't feel responsible for replying to every email I receive. if someone doesn't meet the criteria of what I have said I am looking for I don't necessarily reply to them.

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 11/7/2016 7:00 pm:
PS thank you for the compliment... {=}

richnma 63M

11/7/2016 12:39 pm

I don't think it makes a difference I was a paying member for a few years and stopped paying when they changed their policies on here. Why pay money be a gold member write an email to a non member and they can't read what you sent them. I don't get that logic by BBWMatchMate if your paying money a non member should be able to read it. By the way great picture of you at least I'm able to see it on here not just a little icon pic on your profile
Rich


wetbetweenmylegz replies on 11/7/2016 7:03 pm:
I must say I did find it confusing that people couldn't read the emails I sent them... the site should tell you that they are basically going in to a black hole.

Glad you enjoyed the photo...

notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
11/7/2016 5:14 am

it should not matter if you find what you are looking for, paying does not guarantee more, vip and free gold is a popularity contest, confirmed and verified just means that you gave them your driver's license or some other document so they know who you really are, and if you gave them your real credit card number, they got you hooked so kill that card


abouttime28 54M
74 posts
11/7/2016 2:04 am

I don't believe that paying or not paying for a membership dictates how genuine someone is, with regards to BBWMatchMate. Same thought as with Confirmed vs. Verified. Their motivations and agenda (they there are any) become evident relatively quick within a few messages. I've been pleasantly surprised as well as disappointed with some members, however I continue to roll the dice as the handful of people that I've met and communicate with have turned out to be more than worth the effort, and I couldn't tell you what type of membership they have or if they are confirmed or verified.... but then again, I'm a guy and therefore my attention to detail is suspect... The End


wetbetweenmylegz replies on 11/7/2016 6:47 am:
I appreciate your well thought out comment... and it all makes sense to me. The site is just always pressing new upgrades and things to update and I wasn't sure any of it seemed worth it.

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