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rm_tothemoon2 36 M
1  Article
try and try again   10/2/2003

this site is great i have been a member for about three months and in my time hear i found that the more photos and the more words you have in your profile, the better the responces. you have to profect you profile before you get the responces from the people you like, i tryed for a month emailing this one girl before she said anything to me and then when we meet, all i can say is OH MY GOD ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 155 Votes ,6.52 Score
Here's a clue - Learn to read the profile   9/29/2003

I would suggest that someone that is wanting to meet another person on here first read their profile. Pay attention to what they write. They didn't put that information for no reason. Learn to respect that person enough to try to adapt to the qualifications inside the profile. Remember, some people are not paying members and if they answer you to tell you "no thanks", they are wasting ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 87 Votes ,9.60 Score
SexySWCouple 69 C
1  Article
Anal Sex primer...should you or shouldn't you?   9/27/2003

For those of you who are considering having Anal sex, and just aren't sure of yourselves yet, you probably aren't ready. And if your partner isn't as experienced as he or she should be when introducing someone new to anal sex, it could turn out to be painful, or worse, disasterous. <br> So here is a thought..if you have been curious about anal sex for a while, or have a partner ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
GoddessSekhmet 43 C
3  Articles
A little on MFF threesomes   9/27/2003

Well, me being a bi female makes this easy for me. Since the majority of men want 3somes. My boyfriend has thought the idea is cool for sometime, but he really wants to feel like he is part of it and not just a third wheel. Unfortunately we have not done anything as of yet, and I am afraid when we do he won't like it becuase he will feel left out. As women we have an advantage we can ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
which way do i go???   9/25/2003

to make a long story short...i recently ended a relationship of 8 yrs with the man i thought i would spend the rest of my life with. i was aware that he had and that didn't bother me at all. the thing that did bother me was the "EX". she made it very difficult for my ex to spend time with his . in order for him to see them she needed to be around. there was no issue of him abducting ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
NickKiwi 59 M
3  Articles
Thoughts on Main Street   9/25/2003

Thoughts on Main Street, a poem by NickKiwi <br> You said we would meet, in fact, you said that you would call me on Monday. You said we would meet on Main Street, and you would call me so we could decide on the time. You told me you had long read hair and that you would be there with your mom, she was blond. I had thought that maybe you were leading me on, as you had promised to ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
First timer STRAIGHT single man   9/24/2003

Just curious to know from other single STRAIGHT guys possibly in the Greater Cincinnati area, is there realy any action out there? I'm new at this and I think my profile is pretty decent, has pictures, a facial and others more straight to the point, but I'm still drawing blanks. Check out my profile (strictly for infor. purposes for the guys)and maybe you could tell me where I'm going ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Em_Blue 47 M
2  Articles
Explaining NoMo to the uninitiated and L7   9/23/2003

NoMo=NonMonogamy <br> One of my co-werkers just left, and she was trippin' over the notion of bisexuality. She insists that she would not know 'how to compete' with a man for another man's affection and intimacy. I didn't have the heart to explain omnisexuality and the importance of having genderfluid lovers. <br> Her big question was really why one would give up ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_MiosotisX 66 F
8  Articles
Re: Spelling and Grammar   9/20/2003

I agree fully that the spelling of a lot of people around here is very... very poor, so poor that being a foreigner I would be ashamed if I wrote that way in one of the several foreign languages which I speak! Just... they are writing in their own language and as someone here pointed out they are often (or at least they say...) highly educated! Someone said that as he is not applying for a ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 215 Votes ,7.10 Score
rm_MiosotisX 66 F
8  Articles
Re: The sex game, how is it done again?   9/20/2003

You are still in college so you are very young and some of the things you say make sense exactly because of your age although you would be surprised how many immature older men walk around in this world... To start with you shouldn't listen to whatever other people tell you, probably men who know as little about women as yourself. Hot girls... do you only think of women as sex objects? ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 167 Votes ,7.46 Score
GAvalentine 77 F
1  Article
Easy formula for attracting women on BBWMatchMate   9/19/2003

My experience on BBWMatchMate has been wonderful and I receive messages from men every day. I often receive messages from men who have obviously been disappointed in their experience with BBWMatchMate. These men are asking me to give them a chance. <br> I reply to every message I receive with the exception of those that are really crude and offensive. With the amount of mail I receive, I can ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 364 Votes ,6.98 Score
rm_thehydra 39 M
1  Article
The sex game, how is it done again?   9/13/2003

Confidence is the key to getting hot girls. And yes I was otld they like people to make them laugh, and be fun to talk to, and to give them security. And people say YOU need to go up to them, they wont come to you. Girls are attracted to what they cant have, therefor act like you arent interested. Now this all makes sense, but they kind of contradict themselves. Thats where i am CONFUSED. ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 85 Votes ,5.72 Score
swttemptation 36 F
1  Article
He won't take no for an answer   8/27/2003

I never thought about posting something on here, but I don't know what else to do... There's this guy who I've fooled around with, several times, over the course of 3 years... we hardly know each other, but one night couple years ago, we fooled around... I won't see him for months, and then he'll reappear, we'll fool around... won't see each other for awhile, etc... we both were single and ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 32 Votes ,6.52 Score
silkroses 71 F
1  Article
Re: Need Quick Advice   8/19/2003

My advice to you my friend is simple. PICK ONE! How fair are you being to your girlfriend, her sister and her friend by being interested in and having sex with all three of them. If you want to play the field, then you shouldn't have a committed relationship. If you want a committed relationship, then you shouldn't be playing the field. You're going to hurt a lot of sweet women and you ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 20 Votes ,3.25 Score
sazlou 35 F
5  Articles
RE: am i spinless...   8/13/2003

First things first, if you want to get out-get out! DONT stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in. It's tough to break up with anyone, but it's tougher to start looking elswhere whilst still attatched. Any decent woman would run a mile if they knew the situation! On the day you split with your girlfriend, arrange a night out with the lads. All you need to do is pick your ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 45 Votes ,6.81 Score
RE: PLEASE HELP ME   8/7/2003

That's very simple. Here is my advice: tell him you'll go with him, or that you'll come if he can't come back. Most likely, he won't agree. Then definitely get over him, he is not worse it. But if he does agree, then he is dating another girl to stay with YOU. That would be a heart-breaking situation, wouldn't it? You'd have to decide what to do. By the way, why can't you go with him? ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 29 Votes ,6.05 Score
need mans point of view (response)   8/1/2003

Hi....I am a 42 year old man and I would like to respond to your situation. The fact of the matter is, those men that you date are probably just looking to get laid. I hope you don't get offended, but it is what it is. At 45 yrs old, you really don't have alot to offer a man who is 30 / early 30's except a piece of ass. Are you ok with having these sexual relationships? Or you ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 40 Votes ,3.32 Score
sparkiecouple 50 C
1  Article
how do I gently get her involved in aThree some   7/31/2003

While I was away for sometime...My wife was hanging around with her friend (lesbian). I found out that one night while drinking at home they played cards. Cards turned into strip poker and later into them being intimate. My wife thought I would be mad but I wasn't. I'll be honest here ...at first I wasn't too excited but after thinking about it I thought it was kinda cool. I mean she could ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
rm_sab0900 46 M
2  Articles
Re: PLEASE HELP ME   7/30/2003

If you cannot bear the thought of him being with this other girl then leave him. Find some one that doesn't have to do that. When you find someone new you will get over him. Maybe it was not ment to be, if it were than this visa problem would not exist.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 36 Votes ,5.22 Score
Guys, be honest and up front with your dates!   7/29/2003

I've had some success with this site, and let me tell you- there are some women out there who you should stay away from if you are just looking for sex. I've met several women with the intention of having a fun evening ending in hot sex or maybe becoming a regular booty call. Well, on at least one occation, I wasn't as clear as I should have been. I learned to make sure she knows your ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 90 Votes ,9.34 Score
the greatest thrill and the sexiest part of yer story is that u donno who the father is,, let it be so sexy   7/19/2003

oh girlie, that sure was a great story. Know what u missed, the threesome, u should have tried it, the sexiest game in vogue. Never mind next time when u hit with two guys, give it a try, one bed, one girl and two guys, makin love simultaneously. wowie


0 Comments, 9 Views, 66 Votes ,1.26 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
from salty to sweet   7/18/2003

THANK YOU!!!! <br> I truly enjoy giving head and ask my partner to PLEASE change his diet. It matters SO MUCH!!! In kind, I adjust mine. Some people have NO IDEA what they taste like. If you knew, you'd be more sensitive to your partners -- and THAT is alway erotic. <br> If we eat more fruit and veggies, EVERYBODY would just love oral sex!!! <br> What a ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 105 Votes ,7.50 Score
RE: HOW TO GIVE GOOD HEAD   7/14/2003

You gave a very good article and I'm happy that you took teh time to write an article like that which pleases everyone involved. Something in your article caught though caught my attention and I hope you'll have the same patience and generosity to reply. You said something about a guy tryign to pleasure you and then afterwards, you'd think to yourself 'I could have doen that to yourself'. ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 108 Votes ,6.89 Score
luv2deepthroatu 45 F
2  Articles
BBW i love the feel of a bigger woman   7/14/2003

fucking a thin woman is just no fun for me i don't like being hit by skinny women bones protruding from there pelvic areas i prefer the nice feel of some flesh down there it make for more bounce and fun when you are fucking hard and fast, so go ahead ladies don't be afraid to say you are not a skinny minny there are plenty of men out there who love you and would love to make it with ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 163 Votes ,8.86 Score
re: Friends? Or Maybe more?   7/13/2003

Some things we need to know are: Have you made any moves? Have your moves been rejected? How does she reject you if she does? Why aren't you going after other girls at the same time? Are you putting all your eggs in one basket?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 18 Votes ,5.17 Score
Never get caught - -CONDOM USE   7/11/2003

FancyDan2003: Hi Guys, So you've got a partner/wife and you want to fool around with someone else..(p.s this applies to male gay/bi guys and women fooling around too) why do we always think it’s easy to just take a few condoms from the batch we use with our partner/s eh? <br> The advice is: never use those one.. Always buy new ones on the way to your date and remember ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 94 Votes ,8.36 Score
rm_maasm921 66 M
21  Articles
CHINESE GOOD LUCK TANTRA TOTEM   6/24/2003

THE FOLLOWING IS A CHINESE GOOD LUCK TANTRA TOTEM. <br> You may not believe in this but the advice is great! Read all the way down, you might learn something!!! <br> <br> ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. <br> <br> TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 97 Votes ,9.13 Score
rm_Atasteforfun 53 M
1  Article
Tell someone you love.   6/22/2003

The most important part in a couples sexuality is communication. If things aren't the greatest in bed, most people share the problems with friends. It's a great laugh and helps to relieve some stress, but it doesn't really do much good. If you are truly happy with the one you are with, and the only thing missing is sexually, talk to that person. You tell your friends that he/she won't ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
re: the divorce mediator   5/26/2003

Mr Renaud, perhaps you didn't read what I wrote. I didn't say it was easy - I said quite whining and take charge. If a father wants to support his there is nothing stopping him from doing so except himself. Yeah I know the courts are biased. Yep, it's true judges regularly misinterpret the law. Yessir there are evil women in this world. I have plenty of fathers who have custody and ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 65 Votes ,6.24 Score
novembernight 65 F
0  Articles
Re: Never call the bitch again   5/23/2003

you said it there......the guy you met at the car wash....did he say WHEN he turned into a complete slob? maybe that is why his wife started cheating. as for you, it seems you arent telling all the story here. there are always 3 sides to every story...yours, hers and the truth....so far you have only said yours. and the same with mr. slob at the car wash. your wife gave you 3 . if you ...


0 Comments, 376 Views, 86 Votes ,6.54 Score