We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly... We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love... Hello everyone, I'm new here, so let me tell ya what I'm here for. Well, SEX of course, but not just sex, if that's all I wanted I'd get a lol. No, I'm looking for a FWB relationship leaning more towards something that will last long term, and possibly turn into more. I believe in complete transparency so I will share this with you now so you know what my situation is. I was held up a few years back, and unfortunately, because I was stupid, and had a few drinks that night, I fought back, and as a reward, I was shot twice, I was very lucky to get away with my life. I had 3 surgeries to get the lead out so to speak lol but unfortunately, I still suffer from balance issues that make it very difficult to walk normally so I'm using a wheelchair while going through rehab. The good news is I'm getting better every day and don't get it twisted, I may not be able to walk normally right now but I can still fuck like a 30-year-old, to put it bluntly, lol lol I've learned that life is precious, and time stops for no one you have to grab every opportunity that presents itself to have happiness, and sometimes that means stepping outside your comfort zone and taking some risks that you might not have taken before. So, that's why I'm here, I'm taking a chance and stepping outside my comfort zone to find a playmate, someone that I can get crazy with, in a good way not crazy in the sense of the word. I want to be able to have fun with her, laugh and joke around, and enjoy just being with her and doing things together, or just stay in and cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie or whatever. I'm a kind, caring man. I'm intelligent and can have a real conversation with you, I'm passionate about life and all that it has to offer. I'm honest and loyal to those that I love and care about, I like to call myself a completist because when I set out to do something I'll work at it till it's done and the Virgo in me makes sure that it's done right lol. I'm an attentive and passionate lover with a little bit of a kinky side. I'm looking for someone that's on the same page with me, or at least in the same book anyway lol. I know your thinking ok what about the kinky side right? Ok here's what I'm talking about. I love to give a woman oral orgasms until she begs me to stop, but I don't stop, in fact, I bring her to the edge time, and time again until she's blind with desire and then I bring her to a mind-blowing orgasm with my magical tongue but it's not over that's when I start on her ass... yeah it's just got real huh? Shit, let's break out the toys and really get the party started lol. I like to have fun in the bedroom there's nothing worst than a humdrum sex life. So if you're open-minded enough to look past the wheelchair and get to know the guy in it, I think you'll be pleased with what you find.

My Ideal Person Hmm, My idea person? She's kind, caring, and compassionate, she's an OPEN & HONEST communicator able to intelligently get her point across to get what she wants and needs to be happy, she's independent, but isn't afraid to ask for help if she needs it, she can take care of herself and doesn't NEED a man too, but she WANTS a man in her life as a companion to share what life has to offer together. She's happy, but when she's not, she comes to me for comfort, support, and understanding, she's strong and confident but she knows she can always lean on me when things get a little too hectic. She's open-minded and willing to explore her sexual needs, desires, and fantasies as a couple and as individuals.
I guess she's an all-around good person that enjoys life and has fun with it.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Most of the 70s and 80s classic rock bands and todays country

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I keep having this dream about a beautiful woman knocking
on my apartment door, and when I open she's standing
wearing one of those long London Fog trench coats 's black
and she unties the sash and lets the coat fall open and underneath
she's wearing this awesome white negligee woohoo! She
just pushes me back inside the kitchen and before I knew
it she was riding me reverse cowgirl style right in
my wheelchair in the kitchen 's more the story but
I think you get the gist of ...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, An elevator

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
A young Pamela Anderson, she has that come hither in
her eyes, the eyes get me every time, don't get me wrong she's
got a slamming body and that doesn't hurt but the eyes are
the windows the soul.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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