I am an in-shape, healthy-living Long Island native who enjoys the simple things in life. I work in healthcare with lots of fast-paced stress...so when I am off, I tend to look for some fun and thrilling outlets. I enjoy drives to nowhere with no concrete plans, finding that little water-side restaurant to enjoy a cold beer. Or finding that little hidden beach off the beaten path to sit and take in mother nature, or finding a hidden hiking trail to explore. I also enjoy the complete opposite, like watching a movie and ordering in a Pizza. I'm not really into the crazy party scenes, but I can get down with some decent live music at a low-key beach bar. I'm not purposely looking for something serious...not because I don't want it, but because I don't like to force things and have unrealistic expectations that leads to disappointment. I'm a believer in fate and what's meant to be, will be. If the situation is right, it will develop naturally. For me, that's a given and there is no reason to go out of your way to fit into a certain category just to create a relationship out of nothing. That being said, this is a "sex site" afterall. We are on here for a reason...this isn't eHarmony lol. If we can find the physical chemistry and have kinks/fetishes in common, then I think that will lead to a deeper connection and possible relationship. Those on here are different....so we tend to connect by doing things in a less traditional sense when it comes to dating and developing relationships. I lean more towards being dominant, but it doesn't have to be strictly that type of dynamic. I am extremely open-minded and freaky...there's not much that I find "weird" or that I wouldn't try. I have an extremely high sex drive and I am always looking for new ways to express my desires and needs. Ideally, I'd like to find that perfect balance of "normal" life with doing regular things, while exploring my sexual/physical side. Doesn't have to be 24/7, but its always in the back of my head. For example, if we are out to dinner....I want to enjoy that dinner and have normal talk about our days, but in the back of our heads, we are thinking about what daring and physical fun we can have once we leave the restaurant.

My Ideal Person As I said before, I tend to be more dominant, but it doesn't have to be a complete power exchange. There can be a good balance of that dynamic while still respecting the other person and giving space for individuality. Ideally, I'd like to find a well-educated and confident girl with submissive tendencies. A girl who can also be my Princess for possible LTR if it develops naturally. Doesn’t have to be that serious though. In a perfect world, I'd like to find someone on my level, who can keep up with me while balancing normal life. I enjoy outdoor play, exhibitionism, risky/dares, spontaneous fun, teasing/naked drives...just overall spicy fun. I would love to find a sidekick/partner in crime to take those drives with me, where she knows her standard attire is a sundress with no panties. Someone who is not afraid to explore and share a good laugh with how someone caught a glimpse or how we almost got caught. I need her to be my co-pilot, always searching for a place to pull over and walk around outside naked, take some photos, tease and edge a bit, have some risky fun... and then back on the road to find a place to eat where we carry a normal conversation. Someone who has the same sexual appetite and willingness, while carrying on a normal relationship...and if it feels right, develops into something a little more concrete. Someone who can be my little porn star, but is also able to carry on with normal activities like family BBQs, family events, work outings, etc.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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