I'm looking specifically for a discrete relationship, to help fill in what I miss from my family situation. (If this is an issue for you, please skip past this profile .... don't need any lectures!) I put a lot of work into physical fitness, but not necessarily very strict about diet ..... heck, if I cared about my diet, I would probably be shredded!!! lol ... instead I'm about 20 lbs over what I should be. But what would life be if you couldn't eat the food you love, right? and I love my food!!! I keep myself occupied

이상형: Ideally, someone in the same situation as myself .... someone who is looking for a discrete relationship to help balance out things at home.

I'm looking for the whole package ..... absolutely mind-blowing sex (I've always put in a lot of effort in learning/improving at everything, so looking for someone who shares that same attitude), long relaxing massages; maybe you'd like to catch a movie; maybe you'd like to catch a movie of no interest whatsoever and then just spend the whole time way at the back row kissing/making out! Maybe you'd like to share some kind of fitness activity ..... I'm open to ideas!

I'm not looking for any specific body type or ethnicity ..... I'm old enough to know that none of that matters .... what matters is some level of compatibility, common interests for good conversation and the willingness to try. (only requirement is that ideally I enjoy being with a woman around my age or older)