I'm a (relatively): neat, clean, educated, professional, realistic, secure,independent, grounded and VERY stable guy who likes to have FUN- or at least I try!...I can talk about most anything, if it's interesting- no need to sit on the phone for pointless hours, or send endless kooky messages, usually somebody will just say what you want to hear, anyhow, that's why I'm a face-to-face type of guy...emails, IMs and other chitchat is a necessary evil, but I'm not looking for anonymous penpals...shallow, I know....call me crazy, but I do like to MEET people...eventually I can handle (most)anything- with the right incentive...boundaries and discretion are ALWAYS respected if communicated effectively(that means NO DRAMA!!!...please.!!!)...If you're a former bank robber, or porn star or political prier, I assure you that I won't judge that part of your life, but if you hide it, it just looks mighty sketchy...being from South Florida, myself, I'm quite familiar with schemers, con artists and other nefarious characters..some are/were even my friends!LOL OK, now the self-description: I'm your basic white guy from South Florida who likes ALL kinds of WOMEN...I'm non-judgmental, and don't discriminate, unless you're a kooky, psycho, gold-digger with a bad perality...I do have to draw the line somewhere!!!...I'm not a metrosexual-I'm not that vain-but I do like women to be attracted to me in some way(s)!...short, dirty blonde hair...a fit body, though the old days of hitting the gym for 2 or 3 hours are practically impossible now, with a job and all...funny how life gets in the way of things! My social life: I've been there, and done the social scene plenty for the past 20 years: frat parties, keggers, clam bakes, clubbing, pubbing, bachelor parties, bar crawls, bar brawls, all night, all day, sports events, Mardi Gras, Super Bowl, NCAA, road trips, blah, blah, blah you name it, I've done it- at least twice...I'm single with no s and no worries- I know, you're jealous and you should be!LOL...The only things that change in these scenes are the fresh NEW incoming crop of bleary-eyed 20-somethings, and my ever-increasing age...if you haven't done your quota of out-all-night partying during your s, 20's and/or 30's, well, I did- a lot!- and though I do looove to party and hang out, I don't like being the 'old creepy dude' at a club, trying to look cool hitting on chicks- I remember what the women used to say about those fools, and I concurred! So, I've retired from that era with more than my share of stories, videos, photos and scars AND with my honor and integrity intact...get my point?...I hope so! My professional life: Suffice is to say that my career requires a formal education and licensure...if you want to know more, please feel free to ask, I'm an open book, but this site isn't for a job interview. What I'm looking for: I don't have a 'type' that I seek...I like ALL types of women...I consider it a benefit of growing up in a diverse place like South FLorida...one exception would be a bad perality...one can change how they look- for better or worse- but it is nearly impossible to change your perality, nor am I interested...be yourself, as I will be myself, and if we click then we click; if we don't...then we are no worse for the effort, and I'm always open to friendship...one can never have too many friends. In conclusion: I have often been accused of not taking things too seriousy in life...nothing could be further from the truth...actually, I am VERY serious when the need arises, but I strive to minimize those events, as well as the stress in my life...it's something I learned by being far too serious at one point in my life...I suggest you do the same...if you are living to impress you colleagues, parents, neighbors friends- everyone but yourself- you don't know how to live...at the end of the day it is YOU who must be happy..and isn't that what counts? FYI: You MUST have the approval of my two little hounds, and, vice versa, if you should have animals(which would be great!)...it's my one feminine quality...sorry if that's a problem. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\******* Update: After meeting, chatting, etc. with many fabulous people here, I feel it is necessary to answer these Q's I'm often asked: 1) NO, I am not married or attached...nor do I have any ren...I AM SINGLE...I have no 2nd life or secrets to hide from anyone...enough said, I hope. 2) I'm here because I want to meet cool & interesting like-minded WOMEN...SO NO MEN, please...I don't have a problem w/gay men at all, except when they don't understand that I am NOT gay nor am I interested in TRYING...sorry! If I were at all curious, I wouldn't have left South Florida...there were a few gay folks there, if you hadn't heard.LOL...I'm flattered, but no thanks. I now think I know how women feel when a man doesn't take the hint. 3) I know the meaning of PETITE, ATHLETIC, AMPLE & A LITTLE EXTRA PADDING, etc...so please don't feel compelled to tell me how you're "...not a Barbie Doll or perfect" I can read and see the pics in your profile. And if you have no pics to view or are unwilling, at some point, to show me with whom I am communicatng with, I will likely not be interested...sorry, I'm not into blind dating...so before we both get embarrassed, just put up a picture...all of these excuses about having a job, profession or neighbors to worry about just means you have something to hide or are ashamed of something...if your friends, colleagues, associates or neighbors have seen your picture here...guess what? They were here, too! Surprise! 4) I am SINGLE...if you are married, attached, or "HE" wants/likes to watch (as it has often been stated)...that is your concern, NOT MINE, as you will be treated with the same respect as any (other)woman I should get involved with...so please, just be honest, it's just the best way...I am definitely not into jealousy, paybacks, revenge, etc...I have yet to see it accomplish anything positive. 5) Most importantly: I DO NOT EXPECT TO HAVE SEX WITH EVERYONE I see, hear or have correspondence with...if we do happen to get together I'm not going to EXPECT you to be some bi-sexual nympho who also can't get enough anal, oral or group sex and has two roommates who are porn star strippers, I've been there and done that(ha!) ...and yes, I just might dress up like the President if it gets you hot and horny...the point is just be yourself, I really like genuine people, and if you're horny and fun and know what you want..that's kinda extra hotty...drop me a line!

My Ideal Person Hmmm...SHE must be stable...genuine...FUN...not thinking about long-term stuff before we've even met or dated-LOL...Race, color, creed, religion, etc, etc are of no concern to me...if they are that important to you we are likely not compatible...What makes you unique? I'd looove to know...do tell...and
ya gotta looove to GET DOWN, have FUN and stay REAL...it's really that simple, honestly!

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