Attitude is everything pick a positive one I try to everyday. Five words that describe me well are bawdy bodacious beautiful ornery and Challenging, and perhaps a bit clueless. I following RACK rather than SSC. I will do what Queens do I will rule, Daenerys Targaryen I am a dominant top leaning submissive woman which I guess makes me a switch. I look at it more as I am a warrior queen looking for her renaissance king. There are very few I see as worthy of my submission that makes me difficult and incredibly picky. I am also a survivor of all kinds of abuse which makes my walls very high to climb and hard to break. I am very open and loving with those I choose. I am a hard nut with a gooey marshmallow center. I am an exhibitionist bookworm a keeper of knowledge have a great sense of humor and a good friend to have. I love to read, learn new things, spend time with friends, travel, explore Oregon and anywhere I go. I am a jack of all trades, master of none. I have spent my life learning about people so perhaps I am an expert at that. I have lived in France Germany and Singapore. I hope to travel more perhaps working overseas for a few years. I am a seeker of knowledge and understanding truth if you will. I believe in choices and consent for all. That means I don't judge on you on kinks unless it involves those that cannot consent: animals, mentally challenged and intoxicated individuals. I am spiritual but not religious if you must classify me agnostic would be the best description. I am political but independent again if you must classify me libertarian would be the best description. I believe a positive attitude will get you where you want to be in life. My goals in life are connection, love, joy, learning and travel. My hobbies are reading, sewing, cooking, building things, writing poetry and sketching. I am open to possibilities I have seen the inexplicable and the awe inspiring beauty of nature I do know that we are all connected like a web of light that touches each of us. There are experiences and perhaps shadows that try to smother the light that each of us has shining within us but I believe love, connection is the answer. So share the love, Smile at a stranger, hug a friend, tell your loved ones what they mean to you every day. I mean sharing love with every person I meet we are all beautiful and deserving of love. I prefer kind, intelligent fit active men, should be able to laugh at himself use humor to appreciate the world not tear it down. Kindness is very important to me. I prefer smart funny people that can hold an intellectual conversation and understand that we don't have to agree on subjects to be friends.

My Ideal Person Single or divorced Handsome fit intelligent sense of humor, working equipment prefer thick 7 inches or longer cock

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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