recent empty nesters, but one has flew back to do college local, we have thought of making fwb. also, profile shows us as 57, but wife is 46 my wife likes to fantasize about an extra set of hands, but is shy about making contact with anyone, as she is a larger woman. and while she has had some fun with another man, twice and with my encouragement, she would love to venture a time with a woman. with me watching and some participation of course. we both would like to know another couple for fun,even just card/bbq nights, but there must never be jealousy. we have been together over 25 yrs and sharing our thoughts and fantasies have been great...she is multi and i am maybe 2 times so i enjoy giving and teasing more than bangadity bang....not interested in any single men !!! please stop attempting to chat. couples welcome, but let us know which gender is chatting. thank you. male here is straight!

My Ideal Person of course a single mom would be great so we dont have to worry about the jealous boyfriend or husband, and a somewhat "fit" woman under 180. 5 2ish to 5 10'ish. as for a couple, they must be fun,(size doesn't matter),enjoy cards, bbq's, walks, movies maybe. not just looking for sex, but just having fun friends. sometimes friendly banter can go a long way. i am abit older than my wife and would love to see her have some great fun during her prime time in life. our children are in college or older, but we would prefer to be discreet at home. they do come home sometimes.

we hope to hear from a few of you, even for the chat.thx
more pictures coming soon, but i do have a beard and wintertime i am grizzly adams, but i clean up good come spring.lol
thanks for reading this far

our fantasy...meeting a woman for dinner or drinks and making our way to a motel. hubby sits between the women on the bed and takes the womens hands in his over his lap. he kisses his wife and then the other lady and then falls back on the bed and rubs the women's backs and necks and pulls them slightly closer to each other. then he reaches for their hands again and puts them on the other and starts the massaging of the shoulders and necks and ......
fantasy #1...hope to be coming soon..
we also have a second fantasy which is more simple. a fun night of drinks and cards and friendly hints and then just giving a swap a try!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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